As a spa leader, you are likely juggling about a million different projects to keep your spa successful. But have you taken the time to look inside to make sure you are doing everything you can as a leader? Kathleen Brush, a 25-year veteran of international business and author of The Power of One: You’re the Boss, (www.kathleenbrush.com), a guide to developing the skills necessary to become an effective, respected leader, has pointed out some bad leadership behaviors that might be impacting your bottom line.
In her work for companies around the country, from restructuring operations to improving profitability, Brush says she sees an epidemic of bad leader behaviors. “When I point them out, most leaders downplay, or refuse to acknowledge, the impact their behaviors are having on their bottom line,” she says. “But, in companies where leaders change these behaviors, employees become engaged and motivated. It is really that simple to increase productivity, innovation, and the bottom line.”
“If you’re a boss examining your own lower-than-expected performance, instead of wasting time searching for scapegoats, look in the mirror. Most bosses unwittingly exhibit bad leader behaviors daily that cause their businesses to suffer.”
Here are four increasingly prevalent and damaging behaviors. Are you inadvertently falling into any of these categories?
- The unethical boss:This is a category that doesn’t just annoy employees, it appalls them. As such, it’s a powerful demotivater. When a boss breaks or fudges the rules, cheats, lies or indulges in behaviors that reveal a lack of moral principles, he or she loses employees’ respect. Without their respect, a boss cannot lead. In addition, when a leader indulges in unethical practices, he gives his employees permission to do the same.
- The unfair boss:Our current societal efforts to treat people equally—think gay marriage, health care reform, the children of undocumented immigrants—have led to confusion among some leaders about “equality” versus “fairness” in the workplace. “I talked to a manager who gave all his employees the same pay raise because ‘he wanted to be fair,’ ” Brush recalls. He then seemed mystified that the productivity of his best employees declined to that of an average worker. “Rewards can be powerful tools of motivation, but they must be administered fairly.”
- The buddy boss:Bosses can never be buddies with their employees. Ever. Friendships neutralize the boss’s authority and power. They can also cloud a leader’s objectivity and hinder her ability to correct behaviors, to delegate, and to hold employees accountable. When friendships compromise output, it’s the boss who will be accountable. “Be friendly to employees, but do not cross the line that muddies the relationship between boss and friend. It could cost you your job.” Brush says.
- The disorganized boss: Workplaces are filled with employees who lack direction because disorganized leaders don’t deliver and manage plans and strategies to guide their teams. What’s the chance of an unguided team maximizing its productivity? “What’s the chance of employees being inspired by a leader who leads like a doormat or by random thoughts?” says Brush.
“As a manager, you wield a tremendous amount of power,” she says. “You can be an incredibly negative power or a positive one who’s looked up to by both peers and employees. For the latter, bosses have to purge the bad behaviors.”